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Hi dolls!

Another start of the week, another motivation boost post! 🙂
For this weeks quote I chose something that’s really close to my heart. Because I have been in situations in which I have needed to overcome my insecurities and shyness. I might not appear as the shyest person, but in past I was extremely shy (teenage years), I was very insecure. But when I started studying in high school I somehow slowly overcame my insecurities and I have been building up my confidence since then. Though, even right now I don’t think that I am as confident as I could be.
For example, I remember I had a really big crush on my current boyfriend, before we were dating (he actually had a crush on me as well! 😀 ). I remember how much I wanted to talk to him and make him notice me. I am very talkative with strangers or with people whose opinion isn’t that important to me, you could even call me a social butterfly in those situations, but when I like somebody I want to hide under my shell and hope that they would notice me. But I guess that’s not how it works, right?
So you might ask what happened? I gathered all my strengths and just started slowly chatting with him, at first I tried to be casual and ask about homework or university related stuff (we are studying together), then we appeared to be in the same party, so I snatched him up and we had the greatest convo ever, we found out we have a lot in common. Anyways now he is my boyfriend for over a year now.
But of course, love is not the only place where I have to put my brave face on.  Job interviews, public presentations ( not the small ones, but with more than 50 people), new unexpected situations that bring me out of my comfort zone and so much more.
So, even though, I am scared, I want hide in my shell- at the end of the day I know it will be worth it! 
Have a superb week!
Maddie

30 Comments

  1. March 25, 2013 / 09:08

    Such a lovely and inspirational post 🙂 xxx

  2. March 25, 2013 / 11:34

    Your blog "Motivational Monday" is quite inspirational for me <3 . Be confident in yourself, i wish you and boyfriend have a very good choice 🙂
    xoxo

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  3. March 25, 2013 / 11:51

    good luck girl, its all about confidence =) you can ace it all!

    love from the NANA girls xoxo

  4. March 25, 2013 / 12:35

    Hi sweety, I can completely relate because I am extremely shy as well. This was a wonderfully motivational piece.

  5. March 25, 2013 / 13:22

    – Very nice blog girl ! Thanks for ur post 🙂
    xx

  6. March 25, 2013 / 18:26

    funny, I am very shy too, with boys and to make friends too… but concerning work and all this "non-sentimental" area, I am not shy at all.

  7. Anonymous
    March 25, 2013 / 19:20

    A very encouraging statement! Sometimes we think too much and forget to take action.

    LUXESSED

  8. March 25, 2013 / 23:26

    Tieši tā! Reizēm mēs apmulstam vai sakautrējamies būt paši, bet ir situācijas kur mēs rīkojamies instinktīvi nemaz nedomājot par visiem niekiem kas mums liktu sabremzēt.

    xoxo Ra

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  9. March 26, 2013 / 00:00

    Thank you so much for taking the time to visit 🙂 I appreciate your comments!

  10. March 27, 2013 / 12:40

    So true, sometimes making the decision to overcome the inner insecurities is the most hard yet quickest step.

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